It has been an extraordinary year. In the course of it, I have traveled in four continents, written my book, built a partnership with a wonderful man, roadtripped with my mother, and connected with dear friends — old and new. There have been moments in this process — following, as it does, a period of pain — when I have been stunned by life’s capacity for growth and resilience and adventure.
In February, in the middle of my book-research trip, I flew to Hawaii. I had been to Hawaii once before, at the very beginning of writing my book. In all the years since, as I’ve worked on the stories in my collection, I have compiled a list of archives and museums and historic sites I’ve longed to visit. For all these years, I have imaginatively accessed World War II Hawaii, my characters wandering through its hotels and sugar cane fields and internment camps. But it’s an expensive trip, and I never expected to be able to go back to finish my research. I found creative solutions; I made do.
When I received my grant last fall — this grant that has changed my life — I almost hesitated to take my research trip. I had so thoroughly accepted that I wouldn’t get to engage with this creative work, that I could not even recognize how deeply I wanted to.
In the end, I traveled from Japan to Hawaii on a long, backward-through-time, overnight flight. As soon as I saw the land of Hawaii through the plane window, I felt in my full body the rightness of the moment. All day as I walked through Honolulu, prepping my notes, walking through spaces that I have inhabited so long in my own book, I just kept thinking, dear life. It is the title of an Alice Munro collection that I quite like, and that day it also felt like an unprompted prayer. Here is where that scene takes place, here is a room I wrote about looking just as I imagined it, here is the very building where they danced in that story. Such an extraordinary homecoming, to come home to places you have never been but so long imagined. To come home and walk around inside your own book. Dear life.
There have been difficult moments in the months since, times when the writing has been difficult, or when I have felt unmoored, uprooted, or times when I have felt unspeakably discouraged with myself and the progress of my life. There have also been moments of such joy and clarity they’ve astonished me. These, let me hold onto.